Beating Off Together

MEN, MASTURBATION, NORMS, FRIENDSHIP

My earliest memories are not of sex, but I was ten or eleven when I started thinking about sex and wanting it. I had Rusty and Jimmy Barnes to thank for that. They asked me if I knew how to “beat my meat,” and I didn’t, so they explained it and eventually showed me how to do it. Two young boys, brothers, showing another young boy how to masturbate. The stuff of legends.

It would have been one thing if I hadn’t liked it, or hadn’t been a willing participant. But, I did like it a lot, and learning about sex changed me, changed my life, from that moment on. What ever happened to Rusty and Jimmy? Rusty was the older brother, probably eleven years old, maybe twelve. I’m guessing Jimmy was probably nine. Jimmy was younger than I. Rusty and I were about the same age, and the same grade in school. Rusty and I used to see each other in the hallway at Saint Andrew’s Elementary School, each knowing the other’s secret. I liked that. I liked having seen Rusty naked, masturbating, and having an orgasm for me and Jimmy the night I stayed over at their house. I liked that Rusty and I could look at each other in public knowing what we had done in private.

Rusty told me that he learned how to beat his meat from an older boy, maybe sixteen years old. His parents were out and he had Rusty over to masturbate with him in the living room. They pulled their pants down and the older boy showed Rusty how to stroke his penis and make it feel good. The older boy stroked his big, hairy penis for Rusty until he had an orgasm and shot hot, sticky cum out of it. He showed Rusty how it works; he showed him what happens when a young boy or teenager strokes his penis vigorously until he has an orgasm. The older boy showed him how good it feels to masturbate. It feels so good to beat your meat and do it with another boy. Boys make friends with each other by jerking off together. Boys confirm their friendships with other boys by masturbating with them. It doesn’t get much more intimate and intense than that. Sharing that intense pleasure and being open and free about your body with another boy. Boys like jerking off together. Boys like having sex together. They might not talk about it. They might keep it secret. They might adopt the sexual conventions of society by dating girls and getting married. But, they always remember the pleasure of having sex with another boy. Some of them continue to enjoy sex with men even after marrying a pretty girl and having babies. Social norms don’t eliminate human nature.

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